Again, it was another normal week.  Except for a tick bite that I am a little concerned about.  I may actually see a doctor about it tomorrow, if I can get in.  It doesn't look like a Lyme's rash, although I'm not really sure, but it is swollen and there is like a big bruise around it.  Although I should be resigned at this point to the fact that fate is just not my friend, I really can't believe that I would have to go through the fall and its aftermath AND a tick problem in the same month.  Oh well.  At least I have good stories, right?


It is a new recipe day.  I had invited a friend from work, but he canceled on me, so I asked my neighbor.  He agreed to join me, so I do have a human to share the experiment.  This is the recipe I am going to try: http://www.kraftrecipes.com/recipes/layered-enchilada-bake-107317.aspx 


It is an enchilada bake.  My friend Desiree was kind enough to lend me her brand new cookbook for some inspiration. (Thank you Ms. Desiree!)   I plan to have a cheesy potato dish and a tomato/avocado salad on the side.  I have margaritas.  And wine.  I think I have everything covered except for dessert.  I forgot about a dessert.


As far as other goals are going: 


Walking is going well, as is the reduction in soda.  So is trying to say I'm sorry less.  It has been hard to find reasons to laugh lately - things are a little tense at work because we are having an accreditation visit coming up at the end of the month.  However, there have been some opportunities and I have seized them, and I think I've done very good at not being angry.  


There have again been some opportunities to be a friend to others. I think I did a good job, although, I still think I need to work on being a better listener.  I find myself directing conversation to things going on in my life or offering my opinions when the other person hasn't invited them.  I really need to be aware of this and try to change that pattern.


Next month is both Ari and Aidan's birthdays.  Later this month, I need to touch base with their mom to make sure I know what they would like and make sure they receive the gifts in time.  I promised Ari when she was very young that I would get her an aquarium with fish when she turned ten...I think that is this year.  I don't know if she is still interested, but if she is, I need to make a trip to Petco!


As far as taking emotional risks, still not there.  This week, I didn't take either of the risks I'm been considering.  I guess at this point, I need to consider recognizing what I want and even considering doing something about it as a victory.  Baby steps.  

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